Stuck In My Mind Podcast

EP 282 Bold Leadership: Dr. Dee Trudeau Poskas on Building Authentic Cultures

In this insightful episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes Dr. Denise Trudeau Poskas—also known as Dr. Dee—an international speaker, leadership coach, and co-founder of Blue Egg Leadership. With over two decades of experience helping leaders thrive, Dr. Dee. draws on the powerful intersection of neuroscience, communication strategy, and positive psychology to equip others to lead bold, purpose-driven lives.
Wize opens the conversation by inviting Dr. Dee to share her journey from traditional leadership to full-time coaching. Dr. Dee explains how curiosity—and even initial skepticism about coaching—sparked her academic pursuit for a PhD in leadership, eventually revealing to her the solid framework and transformative power of certified coaching. She discusses the differences between leadership and management and the pivotal role that active listening and effective question framing play in empowering others.
The episode dives deep into the science behind leadership, as Dr. Dee brings neuroscience and communication strategy to the forefront. She highlights how our brains respond to "trigger words," why patterns of language can dictate behavior, and how understanding these patterns allows leaders to break free from self-limiting cycles. Wize shares his own experience discovering a trigger word after undergoing a dramatic weight loss journey, giving the discussion a personal touch.
Listeners gain practical advice on building personal grit and resilience through setbacks and reinvention. Dr. Dee shares her SALC (Structures, Attitude, Leadership, Compassion) approach and the "Team Phenomenon Model," both designed to foster synergy and accountability within organizations. She underscores why emotional intelligence is foundational for any healthy team culture and offers tools for mastering time, mindset, and communication.
Whether you’re an entrepreneur, corporate leader, or someone feeling “stuck” in your current role, this episode is packed with actionable strategies—including Dr. Dee's “Stuck Cycles” self-assessment—to help you diagnose your barriers and reignite your passion for authentic leadership. Dr. Dee wraps up with a forward-looking view of leadership in a fast-paced world, the importance of continual growth, and an optimistic vision for communities of support that help leaders thrive.
Tune in to be inspired to lead with courage, resilience, and intention—and to discover why the journey within is just as important as the outward impact you make.
Key Topics Discussed:
Dr. Dee’s path from higher education to coaching
The science of coaching and leadership frameworks
Neuroscience insights for effective communication
Handling trigger words and emotional triggers in the workplace
Building grit, resilience, and self-leadership
The SALC and Team Phenomenon frameworks
Mastering time management and mindset
Cultivating synergy, optimism, and an emotionally intelligent team culture
Practical steps to overcome feeling stuck as a leader
Insights into Blue Egg Leadership’s retreats, masterminds, and upcoming releases
Visit BlueEggLeadership.com and StuckCycles.com for resources, self-assessments, and more from Dr. Denise Trudeau Poskas. If you’re ready to step into your boldest, wisest self as a leader, this episode is for you!
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EP 281 Dream. Think. Do. Mitch Matthews on Building Six-Figure Impact

If you’ve ever felt trapped in a “bad fit” job, unsure how to pivot toward your true calling, this episode of Stuck In My Mind Podcast is the spark you need. Host Wize El Jefe welcomes coach, speaker, and podcast host Mitch Matthews—a man who’s dedicated his career to helping people dream bigger and build businesses with impact and purpose.
Mitch’s story starts in small-town Iowa, sweeping floors at a bike shop at age 12. His “extreme interest” in bicycles unintentionally unlocked an even deeper fascination—the world of entrepreneurship. Through hands-on learning and mentorship, he saw firsthand how following your passions could create something meaningful. Little did he know that these formative years would lay the groundwork for launching his own six-figure business helping others pursue their dreams.
Wize guides the conversation to pivotal moments, like Mitch’s climb up the corporate ladder in pharmaceutical sales, culminating in running sales training for a $2 billion company. But “success” wasn’t enough—the next promotion led to what Mitch candidly calls “the bad fit ceiling.” Despite living the so-called dream (good income, mortgage, family), his soul-crushing job became a wake-up call. The fear of leaving stability for entrepreneurship was real, especially coming from a family of non-entrepreneurs. Mitch shares how he navigated this fear—not with a blind leap, but by calculating a “leap number,” a strategy he now teaches to others, granting permission to build side businesses without jeopardizing financial security.
What unfolds is a masterclass in real-life entrepreneurship. Mitch and Wize dig deep into the mistakes, false starts, and lessons learned while launching coaching and speaking careers. Mitch’s first misstep: believing big-name certifications would guarantee clients. He soon realized that competence mattered more than prestigious titles, and that most coach trainings gloss over the crucial topic of building a business. Research shows less than 15% of such programs cover the business side, leaving many new coaches floundering. That gap inspired Mitch’s own business: he helps coaches and speakers not just hone their craft but also build profitable, sustainable practices.
The conversation is rich with stories—like Wize’s own journey from podcasting to launching a publishing company, helping a first-time author achieve her dream. Both men celebrate the power of giving yourself permission to experiment, learn, and fail forward. Mitch is passionate about teaching from the journey, not the destination, emphasizing that continuous growth leads to authentic impact.
A major highlight is Mitch’s Six Figure Sequence, a step-by-step system designed to help aspiring coaches, speakers, and content creators launch and grow their businesses with intentionality. Mitch breaks down how the sequence was born—from a wise mentor’s advice at a busy local coffee shop (“What’s your sequence?”) to developing an actionable, repeatable system that has helped thousands worldwide. The concept is simple but powerful: every successful venture has a sequence, a path that guides customers from curiosity to commitment. For Mitch, turning this wisdom into his business’s backbone was transformative, and he now empowers others to create their own sequences for success.
Wize and Mitch also explore the realities of monetizing creative work. Instead of chasing podcast sponsorships, Wize illustrates how developing skills—like book publishing and podcast setup—can become unique revenue streams. Mitch echoes this, encouraging listeners to recognize their value, lean into natural talents, and charge confidently for the transformation they offer.
Another emotional thread is embracing change and personal growth. Wize reveals his own health transformation, losing over £120 in a year, and how the process reshaped his perspective and drive. These moments powerfully reinforce the episode’s central theme: teach from the journey, model vulnerability, and empower others to do the same.
Mitch’s impact extends beyond individual coaching, with his mission to launch one million dreams. While quantifying such a goal is a work in progress, it’s clear his ripple effect—through coaching, speaking, and training other coaches—is multiplying exponentially.
Finally, the episode covers Mitch’s acclaimed podcast, Dream. Think. Do., ranked in the top 1% globally. The show embodies Mitch’s philosophy: give yourself permission to dream, strategize with purpose, and take bold action. Podcasting becomes more than a medium—it’s a way to deepen conversations, build community, and amplify impact far beyond a single coaching session or keynote.
Whether you’re a coach, entrepreneur, creative, or someone feeling boxed in by an unfulfilling job, this episode offers actionable advice, raw truth, and genuine encouragement to break out, build with intention, and help others realize their dreams.
Key takeaways from the episode:
How to transition from a “safe” job into intentional entrepreneurship
The importance of building side hustles before taking the leap
Why most trainings ignore the business side—and how to fix it
The power of the Six Figure Sequence in building sustainable, impactful businesses
The value of teaching from your journey, not just your achievements
How to monetize creative skills outside traditional sponsorships
Why podcasting is a tool for growth, learning, and meaningful connection
Stories of failure and success from both Mitch and Wize
How the ripple effect of one dream can impact millions
For resources, strategies, or to connect with Mitch, visit MitchMatthews.com and check out his Dream. Think. Do. podcast.
If you’re stuck reaching for something bigger, this episode proves that breakthroughs often start with a single conversation. Stay bold, stay purposeful, and stay wise!

EP 280 From the Gridiron to Growth: LaTanya Edenburgs Playbook for Life

From the Gridiron to Growth: LaTanya Edenburghs Playbook for Life
In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe sits down with LaTanya Edinburgh—a true trailblazer whose journey spans professional women’s football, empowerment coaching, and passionate advocacy for healing and growth. Together, they explore the unpredictable paths of life, the power of resilience, and what it really means to break barriers in both sports and society.
A Candid Start, A Powerful Conversation
Wize kicks off the episode admitting to a rare off day—lost notes and a late start—but LaTanya quickly sets the tone with compassion and grace, reminding us all to embrace life’s hiccups, breathe, and move forward with kindness toward ourselves and others. This natural and unfiltered beginning sets the stage for a discussion full of authenticity and deep insights.
LaTanya’s Football Journey: Pioneering on the Field
Listeners are treated to an inside look at LaTanya’s groundbreaking entry into professional women’s football at the turn of the millennium. Initially working behind the scenes in administration, her competitive spirit could not be contained—soon, she found herself donning full pads and taking the field. Her stories of playing full-contact football, choosing defense (“let me do the hitting!”), and traveling the country shed light on the challenges and triumphs of being a woman in a vastly male-dominated sport.
LaTanya reflects on being a pioneer during those early days—before widespread visibility or support for women in football existed. She discusses how her league overcame significant barriers simply through unbreakable team spirit, mutual support, and a shared belief that women belonged on that gridiron. Her pride in seeing the rise of women’s flag football and ongoing progress in women’s sports today is palpable, highlighting the impact of those foundational years.
From Athlete to Empowerment Coach: A Purposeful Pivot
The conversation then evolves beyond athletics. LaTanya shares that her calling to empower and uplift others began as a child, long before her football days. Today, she’s a multi-certified empowerment coach specializing in everything from therapeutic art to grief coaching. Her business, Illuminate Your Journey, is dedicated to helping youth, athletes, and adults heal from trauma, embrace personal growth, and step boldly into their purpose.
Through storytelling, LaTanya explains how she tailors her coaching—drawing from her various certifications and her intuitive gifts—to fit each client’s unique needs. Whether through art, life coaching, or grief work, her central mission remains the same: to guide people from loss to understanding so they can live with empowerment, purpose, and longevity.
Healing, Forgiveness, and Community Uplift
A critical theme in this episode is the role of healing and forgiveness. LaTanya delves deep into the concept of grief—not just related to death, but the “invisible griefs” that stem from unmet potential, transitions, or cultural and societal pressures. She passionately believes in creating safe spaces for people—especially in marginalized communities—to be vulnerable, seek support, and shed the stigma attached to therapy and emotional openness.
The conversation moves into broader community issues, touching on financial literacy, the importance of life insurance, and breaking generational cycles through knowledge and support. Both LaTanya and Wize share personal stories, from loss and hardship to finding hope and purpose, underscoring how critical it is to have honest conversations about mental wellness, money, and personal growth in the Black and Brown communities.
Women in Sports: Visibility, Equity, and the Road Ahead
As women’s sports like the WNBA reach record-breaking attendance and national attention, LaTanya reflects on what it means to finally see the “light shining” on female athletes. She dreams of a future where women receive not just recognition and fair compensation, but real support from across the spectrum—fans, families, and fellow athletes alike.
She’s candid about the double standards still present: how women are often labeled as having “an attitude” for displaying the same competitive drive admired in men, and how society must evolve to support women athletes (and women in general) without bias or belittlement.
Coaching Young Athletes: On and Off the Field
LaTanya brings her coach’s mentality into youth empowerment, describing her hands-on approach: meeting athletes where they are, speaking their language, and addressing the personal and practical barriers to their success. Her coaching philosophy is holistic, recognizing that athletes—especially young women—need more than just technical skills; they need tools to navigate transitions, build self-worth, and unlock their full potential at every stage of development.
Purpose, Passion, and Paying it Forward
As the episode moves toward a close, Wize and LaTanya reflect on the power of storytelling, self-publishing, and using your own journey to inspire others. The importance of community support, celebrating small wins, and uplifting one another runs throughout their discussion. They also discuss exciting future plans—including retreats, workshops, and continued collaboration within and beyond the podcast space.
The episode ends on a note of celebration and gratitude. Both host and guest underline the immense value of authenticity, vulnerability, and service. LaTanya gives listeners ways to connect with her and details her upcoming projects—children’s books and empowerment journals designed to help readers heal and grow.
Why Listen?
This episode is for anyone seeking inspiration—from athletes facing adversity, to anyone in pursuit of healing, personal growth, or a deeper sense of purpose. LaTanya Edinburgh’s story, combined with Wize’s honest reflections, offers a rare and moving blueprint for resilience, community uplift, and the transformative power of living your truth.
Whether you’re navigating your own setbacks, looking for wisdom on empowerment and mental health, or simply want to hear from a true pioneer in women’s sports, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
Connect with LaTanya Edenburghs:Visit her at IYRJ Coaching and follow her journey to illuminate your own path to success.
Listen now and let this conversation spark your next step—from the gridiron to growth, and everywhere in between!

EP 279 Hypnosis, Human Design & Reinvention: Michelle Boyde’s Unconventional Blueprint

In this eye-opening episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe sits down with Michelle Boyde, a master hypnotist and human design expert, who’s on a mission to rewrite the rules around burnout, limiting beliefs, and what it really means to thrive. Michelle’s journey will resonate with anyone who’s ever ticked all the “right” boxes—career, income, status—only to find themselves burnt out and unfulfilled.
Michelle opens up about the moment burnout pushed her to the brink, and how a panic attack marked her breaking point. What followed was a radical reinvention, a bold move away from the high-powered consulting world toward a career rooted in helping others find alignment and success on their own terms.
Discover how Michelle stumbled into hypnosis and found it to be a powerful tool for reprogramming the subconscious—going deeper than traditional coaching ever could. She breaks down the real difference between willing yourself to change and actually rewiring your beliefs at the body level. Through stories and analogies, Michelle reveals why relying solely on conscious effort keeps us circling the same goals, and how true transformation requires working with the subconscious “liminal space” between who we’ve been and who we’re becoming.
The conversation explores human design—described as your energetic blueprint for potential—and why tapping into this framework helped Michelle shift from relentless hustle to “energetically sustainable success.” Listeners learn how human design’s five types, strategies, and authorities can guide daily decisions and help individuals create lives that fit them, not societal expectations.
The episode’s rich with wisdom on navigating stress, breaking the myth that more productivity equals more meaning, and why chasing purpose often backfires if it isn’t grounded in action and authentic desire. Michelle shares moving client stories, including a life-changing hypnosis session with her own father, which shattered skepticism and brought hope for relief even with conditions thought “incurable.”
Listeners will take away practical tips for tuning into desires, embracing the power of rest, and finding rhythm in alignment with their true selves—plus, insights into making human design and hypnosis tangible, not just theoretical. Whether you’re deep in hustle culture or seeking a soul-level reset, this episode is a blueprint for reinvention, urging you to experiment, embody, and redefine what success—and self-mastery—can truly mean.
Ready for a new perspective on transformation? Press play and start your own reinvention journey. Find all of Michelle’s free resources and her liminal archetype quiz at michelleboyde.com/start.

EP 278 Unlocking the Video Marketing Trifecta How to Build Trust and Drive Sales

In this insightful episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes Tim Bradley—co-founder of Pennant Video and creator of the Video Marketing Trifecta—for a masterclass in modern video marketing, authentic storytelling, and building impactful campaigns that drive real business results. Whether you’re a startup founder, B2B marketer, or any leader feeling “stuck” in the noisy world of digital marketing, this conversation is packed with actionable wisdom, practical frameworks, and a fresh perspective on connecting with audiences in today’s attention economy.
A Marketer’s Journey: Tim Bradley’s Origin Story
Wize El Jefe kicks off the episode with a warm welcome and immediately dives into Bradley’s journey. Tim recounts his early days, growing up with a dad who always had a camera at family gatherings, sparking an early love for visual storytelling. From making stop-motion Lego movies in the backyard as a kid to entering the world of YouTube just before its Google-era explosion, Tim found himself at the intersection of creativity and technology right as digital video was transforming how brands communicated.
Leading Creative Teams: Lessons in Fast-Paced Storytelling
Tim shares lessons from leading a 25-person creative team, detailing how high-speed, high-stakes content creation in video marketing taught him the importance of intentional storytelling. Unlike long-form narratives, he explains, most marketing videos have just 60 seconds to grab attention, build trust, and empower decisions. One key takeaway? No single video can do it all. Instead, the secret lies in delivering the right story, with the right information, at the right moment along the buyer’s journey.
The ‘Aha’ Moment: Why One Video Is Never Enough
For many businesses, the common mistake is packing too much into one video—trying to appeal to every stakeholder, answer every question, and check every marketing box. Tim describes how this leads to bloated, unfocused videos that end up being more like boring PowerPoint presentations than compelling narratives. His solution was to develop frameworks (and learn to say “no” to client bloat!), ultimately leading to the creation of his flagship approach: the Video Marketing Trifecta.
Introducing the Video Marketing Trifecta
Tim lays out the Trifecta framework—a strategic, repeatable system that breaks down B2B video content into three distinct but connected pieces:
Anthem Videos: These flagship “why we exist” stories live atop websites and at the center of major events, rallying audiences by tapping into beliefs, values, and mission. They’re designed to speak to the audience’s heart and reflect the viewer’s aspirations back at them.
Explainer Videos: Where anthem videos build emotional resonance, explainers serve the mind—clarifying “what do you do?” and “how do you do it?”, tailored for different roles, industries, or pain points.
Endorsement Videos: The gut check and validation, where satisfied customers become storytellers. These testimonials are powerful trust-builders, showing prospects people like them succeeding with your solution.
Together, these three content pillars differentiate, demonstrate value, and validate your brand, stitching together a buyer’s journey that doesn’t depend on just one magical piece of content.
Solving Real Business Problems—Not Just Creating “Flashy Content”
Tim makes a compelling distinction between flashy, high-production-value videos and genuinely effective content. The former might get attention, but if it isn’t audience-first and aligned with real buyer concerns, it’ll fall flat. Authentic storytelling, built on knowing your customer, using consistent frameworks, and grounding content in actual buyer needs, is where true ROI happens—especially in complex B2B sales that can last up to a year.
Learning from Mistakes: Focus and Adaptability
From failed attempts at all-in-one videos to wasting resources chasing every social channel, Tim is candid about how early missteps shaped his approach. Now, his focus is on being highly intentional—meeting audiences where they are, focusing efforts on platforms and moments that truly matter, and ensuring each piece of content has a clearly defined role.
The Power of the Mid-Funnel: Unlocking Hidden Value
One of the most powerful insights from the episode is Tim’s emphasis on the neglected “mid-funnel.” While brands invest heavily at the top (awareness/advertising) and bottom (customer nurturing/thought leadership), the critical middle—where trust is built, decisions are made, and engagement happens—often gets overlooked. This is where the Video Marketing Trifecta shines, filling a gap ignored by many in-house teams, especially in long B2B sales cycles.
Actionable Advice for Startups and Small Budgets
Tim’s advice isn’t just for Fortune 500s—he breaks down how startups and small businesses can apply the same principles. With just a smartphone and some consistency, anyone can start building a valuable content library, learn from audience feedback, and invest resources more strategically over time. The key: Just start, keep learning, and don’t wait for perfect equipment to tell your story.
Creative Trends & The Role of AI
The conversation examines the evolving role of AI in content creation and production efficiency. While Tim embraces AI tools for speeding up tedious editing and transcription, he cautions against letting shortcuts erode trust or authenticity. For podcasting and video alike, leveraging technology should enhance—not replace—the human connection.
Myths, Trends, and What’s Next
Tim busts the myth of the “one-video-to-rule-them-all,” emphasizing that great video assets can—and should—be repurposed, remixed, and used across channels, events, and content calendars for maximum return on investment. In terms of trends, he urges brands to embrace “video first” strategies, invest in internal teams, leverage influencer and creator culture even in B2B, and make better use of existing assets through thoughtful repurposing.
Practical Alignment: Syncing Video Strategy with the Buyer’s Journey
For businesses looking to better match their video strategy with real buyer journeys, Tim recommends having authentic conversations—with customers, sales teams, and industry partners—to surface pain points, objections, and opportunities for trust-building stories. Strong relationships, clarity on goals, and an audience-first mindset are more valuable than any piece of equipment or viral trend.
For the Stuck Marketer: Don’t Add to the Noise
Closing out, Tim offers heartfelt advice to leaders feeling overwhelmed: Don’t just contribute to digital noise for the sake of it. Engage with intention—prioritize value, make real connections, and let authentic stories cut through. To anyone who has felt like video “didn’t work,” he encourages honest reflection on goals, creative approach, and whether the content was truly audience-driven.
Final Takeaways & Resources
For more: Listeners are encouraged to check out Pennant Video and download the ungated “Funnel Focused” playbook at pennantvideo.com for hands-on strategies.
Whether you’re redefining your approach to content, struggling with low engagement, or just getting started with video, this episode is a must-listen for demystifying B2B video marketing and building a brand people can trust.
If you know a founder, marketer, or leader who’s struggling to turn attention into genuine sales, this episode might be the missing piece they need. Stay clear, stay strategic, and stay wise—because the right stories, told in the right way, are what truly drive business results.
Listen now for brilliant, battle-tested advice from a storyteller at the forefront of video marketing innovation!

EP 277 Clarity, Connections, and Entrepreneurship: Angela Lewis on Purpose-Driven Business Growth

On this episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes the multi-faceted strategist and entrepreneur Angela Lewis for a conversation overflowing with clarity, connection, and unexpected golden nuggets. What starts as a humorous mix-up – with Wize thinking Angela was a PR pro due to her knack for making connections – quickly unfolds into a powerful exploration of what it really takes to build, scale, and revitalize a business or brand from the inside out.
Angela shares the real story behind her journey as the founder of Savvy Designs and The Pink Elephant Solution, underscoring her relentless drive to help businesses, creatives, and entrepreneurs not just survive but truly thrive. She unpacks how her background in art, consulting, and design evolved into strategic brand-building and developing accessible platforms to help businesses at every financial level lay solid foundations. Listeners get a window into Angela’s education at Harvard, her ongoing commitment to self-learning, and her mission to pass on deep-rooted business principles so that others can grow resilient organizations.
Together, Angela and Wize discuss the common traps leaders fall into—like launching businesses without foundational skills or tactical structure, and failing to see the difference between an LLC and true liability protection. Angela’s advice is sharp: invest early in strategic accounting and legal support, and always focus on learning before leaping.
But the conversation moves way beyond business nuts and bolts. Angela talks about the art of connecting people, the difference between transactional exchanges and lasting relationships, and how one’s personal journey and emotional health feed directly into entrepreneurial success. Wize opens up about his own life: losing loved ones, overcoming personal struggles, rediscovering his purpose through podcasting, and the true power of supporting others and being supportive in return.
Whether it’s how to build an “elevator pitch,” navigate a rapidly changing business climate, make crucial pivots, or the importance of celebrating personal milestones and self-betterment, Angela delivers invaluable insights with warmth and contagious energy.
If you’re an entrepreneur, leader, or creative who feels “stuck in your mind,” this episode is a masterclass in finding clarity, embracing connection, and choosing purpose-driven momentum over busywork. Tune in for a conversation that doesn’t just drop gems—it hands you the blueprint for building your own business legacy and living boldly, one intentional action at a time.
Don’t miss this episode if you want tactical business wisdom, real talk about life’s rollercoasters, and inspiration to get out of your own way. Connect with Angela Lewis—aka The Real Angela Lewis—at Savvy Designs, The Pink Elephant Solution, or on social platforms, and keep following Stuck in My Mind for more mind-shifting conversations.

EP 276 From Food Stamps to Global Stages: Marianne Hickman’s Journey to Speaking Success

In this powerful and uplifting episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, host Wize El Jefe welcomes international speaker, entrepreneur, and speaking coach Marianne Hickman. Known for her remarkable journey from food stamps in Utah to igniting stages in 17 countries, Marianne shares her authentic story of resilience, transformation, and the transformative magic of sharing your message with the world.
A Journey Fueled by Hardship and Hope
Marianne pulls listeners in with her unfiltered account of what life was like before her first intentional speaking opportunity. Growing up as the youngest of ten in a family of high achievers, Marianne describes the emotional and financial challenges that nearly broke her spirit—marriage and motherhood at an early age, raising five kids, concerning debt, and the humbling experience of relying on food stamps and government support. She humorously and candidly recounts driving the family’s old Mazda minivan through Provo, Utah, wrestling with frustration at “doing everything right” but still struggling financially.
On that pivotal drive, she describes a personal, almost confrontational conversation with God: she demanded either a box of money on her porch or proximity to someone who could teach her “the money game.” Fate complied—not with cash, but with access to mentors and examples who showed her how to turn her personal story, pain, inspiration, and lessons into sustainable, purpose-driven speaking.
Discovering the Power of Storytelling
Marianne’s turning points didn’t come in the fashion of overnight success. She opens up about her early speaking opportunities, from her church putting her on stage as a child (admitting churches “knock the stage fright right out of you”), to attending seminars as a “seminar junkie” and stumbling accidentally into her first significant co-facilitator role. She shares a vivid anecdote about a seminar where she witnessed a speaker sell out $300 worth of resources to 700 people in a single session—redefining for her the possibilities of influence from the stage.
But more than money or surface-level success, Marianne found her purpose in influence that creates real change. She connects the dots between mastering communication, having a message rooted in authentic experience, and the responsibility to use that message to help others transform their lives.
Overcoming Fear & Transforming Mindset
A key theme throughout the episode is the fear and self-doubt that come with stepping onto a stage—physical or virtual. Marianne boldly confesses to battling “me-centered” anxieties: Am I good enough? Will I forget my content? Does my outfit look okay? But she reveals a paradigm-shifting piece of wisdom: “Stage fright is inherently selfish.” By focusing less on herself and more on serving her audience, giving value, and tuning in to their needs, her nerves are transformed into purpose.
She dives deep into the importance of mindset, using humorous and relatable family anecdotes (like being head-butted by a sheep at a photo shoot) to illustrate how what’s inside you gets squeezed out under pressure—onstage or off. For Marianne, developing a resilient mindset and sharing stories from a “healed scar, not an open wound,” are essential for authentic, impactful speaking.
Lessons from Failure & the Power of Humor
Marianne isn’t shy about her early speaking “cringe moments,” sharing how watching her old keynotes taught her humility and the value of self-compassion. She stresses the importance of ongoing learning and giving oneself permission to be funny and human—citing icons like Robin Williams as examples of using humor to make difficult topics accessible and healing.
Building a Signature Message—and an Income
With practical steps and hard-won wisdom, Marianne walks listeners through the essentials of building a signature presentation. She describes her 10-step keynote blueprint—an adaptable framework that brings stories, lessons, and audience participation together in a way that’s psychologically powerful and emotionally relevant.
Marianne unpacks the different business models for speakers: the traditional stage fee route (getting paid for keynote sessions at associations or universities), and a more scalable, sustainable approach—offering resources, free tools, or courses to your audience as a seamless next step after speaking. She even shares how simple tools and free resources (like her podcast database) can organically lead to recurring revenue by fulfilling audience needs.
Advice for Aspiring Speakers
For anyone terrified of public speaking, Marianne’s advice is refreshingly simple and actionable: Get the reps in. Start small by going live on social media for two minutes a day—practice is the only way through the fear. She assures listeners that everyone starts small, and reminds us, “Even if no one shows up, just do it anyway.”
Authenticity and impact, according to Marianne, come down to personal growth and honesty. It’s not about presenting a perfect, drama-free life, but about being real, vulnerable, and committed to ongoing evolution. Your message doesn’t have to be traumatic or “the biggest”—it just needs to be yours, rooted in lessons learned and a desire to help others.
Trends and Changes in the Speaking Industry
Marianne and Wize riff on the post-COVID explosion in digital stages, especially podcasts, and the democratization (and challenges) of getting visible in an increasingly crowded market. She notes the importance of longevity—just “keeping going” in the face of comparison and distraction—as well as becoming the “purest version of yourself,” rather than trying to emulate others. Standing out means embracing your unique strengths, flaws, and quirks.
What’s Next? And Marianne’s Final Message
Marianne closes by sharing her plans for upcoming books (“Uninfluenced”), women’s and couples retreats for speakers, and her ambition to put people on a million stages and help them make a billion dollars doing it. But her message for listeners—especially those who feel “too small” to get on stage—is about snuffing out the lies of self-doubt. Every voice matters, and the world needs more good people who know how to use their story for positive change.
Call to Action
If you’re feeling the fire to get your message out or want to explore paid speaking, Marianne welcomes listeners to reach out directly for guidance, resources, or just a supportive conversation. Wize signs off with an invitation: Share this episode with someone whose story deserves the spotlight—they might be “one stage away from everything they’ve been dreaming of.”
Key Episode Themes:
Turning adversity and setbacks into platforms for success
The role of mindset and self-talk in overcoming speaking anxiety
The power of storytelling for influence, impact, and income
Authenticity, vulnerability, and the ethics of sharing your story
Building sustainable success as a speaker, onstage and off
Practical first steps for aspiring speakers
Navigating a changing speaking landscape post-COVID
The value of individuality and consistency over comparison
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For anyone feeling “stuck” and wondering if their story or voice could ever matter, this episode is a must-listen. Marianne Hickman proves that even the most unlikely beginnings can lead to stages that change not only your life, but the lives of others. Tune in for inspiration, laughter, and a practical roadmap to your own breakthrough as a speaker.
Connect with Marianne Hickman:Text her at 801-509-5495, mention the podcast, and start the conversation about using your voice for good and sustainable success.

EP 275 From Scarcity to Magnetism: Cracking the Abundance Code with AD Roberts

Welcome to a powerfully transformative episode of the Stuck In My Mind Podcast, hosted by Wize El Jefe, featuring high-voltage mindset engineer and hypnotherapist, AD Roberts. In this profound and deeply motivating conversation, Wize welcomes AD Roberts to discuss what it really means to “crack the abundance code” and blueprint your way out of lack and scarcity, into empowered, conscious expansion and authentic wealth.
From Rock Bottom to Quantum Breakthroughs
AD Roberts opens up about his journey to success, starting young in real estate and finance, making boatloads of money—then losing it all in the 2008 financial collapse. Raw and honest, AD shares how losing everything forced him to rebuild, not just financially but on a deep psychological, spiritual, and energetic level. What pulled him out? Unshakable faith in the mind’s power and an understanding of the quantum nature of reality. He reveals that the true currency in life is your mindset, and the energetic frequency you hold.
The Science of Abundance: Neuroplasticity Meets Quantum Field
Delving into the intersection of neuroscience and energetics, AD explains how neuroplasticity (the brain’s wiring) and subconscious beliefs determine 95% of your reality. He breaks down how we move through life on autopilot, repeating patterns embedded deep in our subconscious since childhood. Whether it’s beliefs about money (“money doesn’t grow on trees,” “you have to grind to get rich,” “chase the bag”) or fears about scarcity, these narratives shape both our actions and what we attract.
AD reveals practical secrets to rewiring your mind for wealth: upgrading your inner programming, aligning with your wealthy identity, and understanding that manifestation isn’t about chasing—it's about magnetizing abundance through vibration and identity.
The Origin of the Abundance Archetypes
One of the episode’s key highlights is AD’s story behind developing the “Abundance Archetypes” found in his book, Cracking the Abundance Code. After working with countless clients—from C-suite executives to professional athletes—AD noticed universal limiting beliefs blocking abundance. To help people identify and overcome these blocks, he and his team created the Wealth Assessment, which gives each person a score and matches them to an archetype (e.g., Flow Alchemist, Blocked Builder). This system provides a personalized map to uncovering and transcending subconscious roadblocks.
Hypnosis for Success: How to Literally Rewire Your Brain
Ever wondered how hypnosis works in wealth transformation? AD demystifies hypnosis, likening it to the natural trance state we experience every day (like driving and suddenly realizing you’ve arrived). By slowing the brain’s cycles, hypnosis unlocks the subconscious, allowing new empowering beliefs to take root—allowing you to shift from a “scarcity” operating system to one of abundance. He discusses the process, the science, and what clients actually feel during a session—and shares that real freedom is being abundance, not just chasing it.
Redefining Wealth: It’s Personal
What does a “wealthy identity” really look and feel like? According to AD, it’s not a one-size-fits-all template. Wealth for him means time freedom, health, flexibility, and the joy of impacting others—while for someone else it might be land, creativity, or family. He emphasizes that authentic abundance always stems from one’s unique passions and the highest version of themselves.
AD and Wize dive into purpose, with moving stories about discovering their true calling later in life, and the immense joy that comes from serving others. The wisdom here is universal: your life changes when you find the passion that lights you up—work becomes play, and abundance begins to flow.
Words, Frequency, and the Quantum Field
The power of language is another central theme. AD explains how every word you speak emits a vibrational signature that the quantum field mirrors back to you. Whether you choose words of faith or fear, hope or lack, you are literally scripting the next chapter of your reality. The episode is packed with actionable examples and inspirational reframes to help you shift into abundance mode—now.
Action Steps for Listeners Ready to Shift
If you’re stuck in a scarcity mindset, AD lays out the first crucial steps: take a personal assessment, identify your own subconscious blocks, and use daily rituals like meditation, journaling, and affirmations to rewire your frequency. He emphasizes the importance of regular mental “cleansing”—just as you shower daily to remove dirt, daily mindset work keeps you energetically fresh and ready to receive abundance.
Myth-Busting and Radical Truths
AD shoots down common abundance myths, most notably the idea that relentless grind is the only way to success. He introduces the “Law of Least Effort”—that when you’re energetically aligned and open to receive, abundance flows with synchronicity and grace.
Accessing the System: How to Dive Deeper
Throughout the episode, AD shares details about his Cracking the Abundance Code system, including the Wealth Assessment, his powerful 21-day program, and hypnosis tracks designed to help you quantum leap into your wealthy identity. He offers ways to connect further through retreats, one-on-one sessions, and daily TikTok lives—reminding listeners that transformation starts with one simple step of engagement.
A Conversation That’s a Wake-Up Call
The energy between AD and Wize is electrifying—both men passionate about transformation, purpose, and uplifting others. Listeners are encouraged not just to listen, but to act: take the assessment, grab the book, and start reprogramming both thoughts and beliefs. The live interaction with listeners (shoutout to Tony!) reinforces the episode’s core message—your journey from scarcity to abundance can ignite the same spark in others.
Final Takeaway
This isn’t just a podcast episode—it’s an invitation to look within, question your old stories, and choose a new reality. AD and Wize show that abundance isn’t about luck, hustle, or background—it’s about awareness, intentionality, and aligned action. By cracking your own abundance code, you step into a life of purpose, freedom, wealth, and deep fulfillment.
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed by scarcity, or just ready for your next leap, this episode is your blueprint and energetic boost to take that first, bold step. Listen, share, and begin your own abundance journey today.